THE AMERICAN POLITE UTTER WRITER, CONTAINING ABOUT SIXTY LETTERS, •niTTBS In THE MOST FASHIONABLE STT1I —c*.. . MY JOHN KENEDY. NEW 'YORKi nTBLISHED BY If. C. NAJIB, 98 Catharine Street
THE AMERICAN POLITE LETTER WRITER, CONTAINING ABOVT SIXTY LETTERS, ►BITTEN IN THE MOST FASHIONABLE STTLI BY JOHN KEXEDY, — ^4wAEH’ YORK; PUBLISHED BY N. C. NAFIS, 98 Catharine Street 1839.
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LETTER I. A Letter front a Young Man to a Rich Young Laay Baltimore, Sept. 10th, 1828. Miss— Since I had the pleas'ire of beholding'your lovely face, and of taking notice of your slender and genteel shape, I could not refrain fiom thinking of you, and the more I think of you, the more I admire you. I baie inquired concerning your character, und have been informed that your amiable Ind friendly disposition makes you to be .■niversally liked by al) that know you. 1 •jope that these few lines may be accept*, ole to you, as my intention is a pure one to wards you, and should I be fortunate enougi to attract your notice, 1 should think my. self one of the happiest men in the world. J hope, Miss, that you will make some private inquiry concerning my character and family, as I expect you’ll be fully satisfied in that respect, and at the same time, 1 must entertain hopes of a more intimate acquaintance with you, and would wish you to write al) quick as possible 1 remain your well wisher,
A THZ AMERICAN POLITE LETTER WRITER. LETTER IL The. Lady't Answer. Sir - I receiver your letter of the 18th of July, mentioning of your admiring my person and extolling my character, as also that of my friends. 1 hope that we will always deserve that name; but it surprises me to hear protestations of love from a person that is altogether unknown to me. However, it would not seem prudent in me to hold a correspondence with any voting man until I would know him, /specially in this deceitful world, where there are so many females led astray by listening tu false pretestations of love, whereas, if not listened to, there would not be so many prostitutes in the world. I wotdd not impute any falsehood to your letter, but at the same time .cannot help making the above remarks, as you well know them to be true. I have no objection in having you visit my father and mother, and perhaps after more intimate acquaintance, we may be better known to each other—"ntil men, I cumutgive you any more encouragement. 1 remain your well wisher.
TU.. AMERICAN POLITE LETTER WRIT. V LETTER III. An Introductory Letter from a Young Man to a Beautiful Young Lady, with a I^irgc Fortune. Baltimore, July 31st, 1828. Miss Catharine— Although I have not the pleasure at the present time to get acquainted with you by a personal interview, I hope you will not take it amiss to send you these few lines, >s it ij with die purest intention that I send them to you. I have seen you a few times, and the more I take notice of you, the better I like »ou. Perliaps you have no knowledge of me, ant if you wish to inquire concerning mJ character, you will find it unblemished, a. that is my greatest ooast, to bear a good name and support it, as I value it as dear as life.— You may say that I have been too forward io writing to you before I got acquainted with you, but my passionate love for you urges me to solicit your favour. I have sent this letter by----- . An answer to which 1 hope you’ll favour me with by the same source as soon as possible. At the same time I remain in expectation of a kind answer, which will gladden the heart of your well wisher, PIERCE LOVEMUCH.
Fil THE AME11ICAX POLITE LETTEIl WHITE*, LETTER IV. The Rich Lady's Answer. Sin— 1 cakwot but smile at a young1 man of your boasted character, to transmit a letter to a person that is wholly unacquainted with you, and if you are candid in your opinion of me, I cannot but think well of you for your encomiums, provided you are in earnest; but there are so many instances of false protesta- Sons and flattery, especially from young men, uiat 1 really cannot but doubt of your sincerity. However, I do not want to put you off abruptly, lest you might think me too prom) or unmannerly, but if you wish to see me^ y ou may come to my father’s house, and after n.y parents and you get acquainted, then, and not until ‘hen, will I consider myself an, acquaintance, much less a lover. I am too Voting to get married yet, and would be obliged to you to give up all thoughts of me ioi tile present. 1 Remain, respectfully, CATHARINE YOUNG.
TUB AM ERI CAM FOtlTI LETTER WHITE. LETTER V. From a Young Man to a very Young Lady. Miss Sophia— You will pardon my boldness for writing Jus letter to you, and addressing you in the warm language which my heart dictates tome. 1 fee) as if I could write every thing in your iraise that a lover could wiite, but 1 mean to confine myself to a few words, wishing at the same time that you may enjoy as good health as your unceasing lover enjoys at present, "lease to recollect the time you A'ere a walk- ng in -----------, whe -e I was first captivated bv your lovely shape and angelic looks. I Know y on could not perceive me at the time, but such was my ecstacy of joy at beholding so lovely a creature, that the idea of beholding again that lovely form almost took up all my thoughts, ami with y our permission, Miss----, I entreat y ou to have compassion on me, and let not my solicitations be in vain. I want mi friendslr.p from y on, but the happiness of being admitted a few moments into your company, whose beauty and virtue are so great, Quit note -a this world can equal you, and in
8 THE AMERICAS FOLTTE LETTER WRITER. hopes of this letter meeting with a good re. Ception from you, I remain for ever yours, LOVE. P. S. Please write on receipt of this. LETTER VI. The Young Lady's Answer. Sir The praises you were pleased to bestow oft me, were altogether unnecessary on your part, as I consider myself too young to form any acquaintance with young men of any kind,- and indeed I could not well excuse you for writing to a person like me, with whom you had not much acquaintance. In the first place, it would not be prudent in me to answer a letter of the kind that you have sent me; and in the second place, I would not displease my parents in holding correspondence witn any person without their knowledge, a liberty that would perhaps soon annihilate the future prospects of my destiny. But if you were to get acquainted with my father and mother, and that they would like your conduct, it is then, and not until then, that I could with proprie-
THE AMERICAN FOEITt LETTER WHITE. ty give you any permission to address me. Wish that you may find some other object at present to pass your encomiums on, as I am too tender in years to be flattered in that way. lam, respectfully, SOPHIA. LETTER VII. From a Young Man that follows the water, to a Beautiful Young Lady. Miss— Mr passage was only a pleasure to me whei the lovely thoughts of my dear----- has kept up my spirits. I am fully persuaded, in my mind, that you are thinking of me in like manner—please to compose your mind, and believe me to be as sincere in my love to you, as ever a young man was with his sweetheart! and, indeed, why should I not regard you, even beyond all creatures on earth, as your modest, discreet, and amiable disposition, cannot but captivate my heart. I will make all possible haste to settle my business and return home, as every minute seems to me an hour, Until 1 have the pleasure of beholding your
10 THE AMERICAN POLITE LETTER WRITER. lovely face. I hope you'll pardon me for, perhaps, saying so much in your praise, but when you consider the love I bear to you, you cannot then blame me so much. I have no more to add, but remain your lover until death. LETTER VIII. The Lady's Answer. Sin— 1 most own that I respect you, and I ah tnost could say that I love you. If a long acquaintance, and a correct deportment, ensure? tny respect for you, I cannot but feel a certain warmth in my mind and heart for you: but. anti) my parents would give you their consent, cannot Say any thing to you concerning any nearer friendship, as I always had a strict adherence to my parents’ directions and commands to me. 1 would have no objection tc own you as a well wisher, and I may say, a lover, but cannot depend too much on what young men say, in respect to their love to any of our sex, as they too often make such themes of love the object of their hatred, afterwards, and having hea.’d of such tilings happ»^'ing so
THE AMERICAN POLITE LETTER WHITKIt, jften to my sex, 1 cannot encourage your so licitations, until first forming a nearer acquaintance with my parents—at the same time, believe me to be your humble servant, LETTER IX From a Young Man, to a Beautiful Young Lady, with whom he is only dlghtli/ act quainted. Miss Jake— Since 1 had the happiness to see you, -ave been very desirous of a greater happi- less, which is, to be admitted a few minute* nto your company, in order to lay open my' n>ind to you. I have often wished to have an opportunity of speaking a few words to you, as I know it would ease my almost broken heart 1 have seen you at different, times, and had not an opportunity of speaking to you. I have now made bold to send these few lines, hoping that you will regard them as coming from a person who values your modest and genteel behaviour, as much as ht does his existence. 1 need not mention any thing concerning your beauty and virtue, as , every one who is acquainted with y ou, know*
12 THz AMERICAN POLITE LETTER WRITES. how much vou are possessed of both—indeed, when 1 see your beautiful face, I cannot help being ravished, and the oftener I happen to see you, the more I love you. Please to excuse me for being too bold in writing in this manner, but when you’ll perceive that my intention is pure, and that it is in expectation of a reciprocal love from you, that causes me to dwell on your praises, I hope you’ll think of one who values you more than any other person in this world. I remain your affectionate lover, WILLIAM PIlETTf LETTER X. From one Brother to Another. Baltimore, July 28th, 1828. Dear Brother— I write these few lines to you, hoping to find you in as good health as 1 am at present Give my love to all inquiring friends, and in particular to--------. Let me know how you are doing, and be particular in mentioning every particular concerning the family, as there is nothing gives me more pleasure than to hear that all of you are well. I have
THE AMERTPl . JMITS IETTHI MITM. 13 joyed ven- good health, since I left you, and have been introduced into decent company, together with a prospect of doing well; three great blessings, indeed. Send me an answer to this as soon as possible, as 1 am desirous of hearing from you, as you know what brotherly love I always shewed to you; and, indeed, you were well deserving of my love and friendship. Perhaps, before many months, we could have the pleasure of enjoying one another’s company, as there is nothing would give me more pleasure than to be cnce more in the company of them whom I detrly love. conclude these few lines, my Dear Brother, ly wishing yourself, and the rest of our rela ions, more happy days. Your’s until death, JOHN BURNS LETTER XI. From a Young Gentleman, to a Rich Merchant's Daughter, with whom he was slightly acquainted. Miss— Yoe will please to excuse mv writing to you without pejni
14 THE AMERICAN POLITE LETTER WRITER. voti knew how I loved you, you could not blame me, as I am neverat rest but when I’m thinking of you, and how great woul I be my pleasure, were I in the possession of so ines timable a jewel as you are. I cannot express, with words, the love I bear you; but permit me to say, that unless I have the favour < f your esteem, I consider myself undone for ever; for what the tongue cannot fully ex press, the heart does feel, perhaps ten times more. Please to inquire into my character and qualifications, which, if you take the Vast trouble in so doing, you will find every' filing to your satisfaction. If 1 have the hap- niness of your friendship, I shall consider my self one of the happiest men in the world, and in expectation of an answer, 1 remain, with the greatest esteem, Your faithful lover, LETTER XII. From a Young Tradesman, to a Beautify Young Lady, ht had seen taking a walk. Mms— Perhaps you may be surprised to receive a letter from a person with wnom you are un-
\ Mt AMERICAS F0L1TK LETTER WRITER. 15 acquainted, but permit me to tell you that I have often seen you, although it never was in my power to get an opportunity of speaking to you; and if you could only reflect, how so charming a face as yotir's has captivated my heart, you could not blame me for sending von these few lines, as a small token of my love towards you; and it is with the greatest pleasure that I now express with the pen, a part of the friendship and love which 1 entertain for you; and if 1 was to Write ten times as much in your praise, it would not be enough, as I think you are the most beautiful lady in the world. Please to take pity on me, end consider that my love is sincere, and pure, and always the same. Believe me at the same time to be, respectfullj', yotir’s, CHARLES DUNCAN. P. S. Direct to C. Duncan, No. 20. LETTER XIII. A Letter from a Beautiful Young Lady, to a Handsome Young Man, whom she suspects to slight her. Baltimore, September 30, 1828. Sin— I have taken the liberty of transmitting these few lines, or rather, these few remarks
10 THE AMLXTCAW POLITE LETTER WRITE®. to you, concerning some news that I heard fl- late, concerning you, which, if I kept secret sn my breast, would be of more pain to me, than by disclosing it to them, .hat I may say, knows all my thoughts in respect to my regard for him. I am credibly 'nformed that you are paying your addresses tc Miss----- , which, after so many professions of your attachment to me, seems very cu tons. Had you said to me, I cannot visit you any more, and gave your reasons, I should be fully satisfied; but to pretend to be in love with me, and then to turn to and court another, without giving you the least reason to dcubt my '"Sendship and love, I cannot but feel a tonish. ed; however, as soon as this letter leaches you, I hope tb.at you’ll give me an explanation of your conduct, as, at present, I cimiuC #ut doubt your sincerity on the subject. I remain, ELEANOR FAIRFIELD. P. S. Direct your letter to E. Fairfield.
tas America* colitk imtn writs*. Ip LETTER XIV Salishi-ht, October 1, 1828. Dear Elea no u— I am very sorry that you have been misin- formt .1 concerning' my courtship with another girl, as it is altogether wrong in any person to make such report—but 1 know that there are malicious persons in the WOikl, that try to breed a disturbance between young and tender lovers as we are; but 1 hop' after this ’eaches you, that you'll be convinced of my faithful professions of love made to you on former occasions—at the same time you must not believe reports of that kind, from any person, unless From a particular friend, as there etc many persons would pretend to be your friends, who really are not; and I beg of you to believe nothing of that kind, until I see you, and give you an explanation of the matter; therefore, content yourself my love, and believe me at the same time to be your most aJ lee tiemate friend and lover, JAMES LYNCH. 2
13 THE AMEBICAW POLITE LETTEH WHITER. LETTER XV. From a Widow Lady, to a Widower Sir— It has been my misfortune to lose one cf the'best of husbands that America ever produced, which leaves me at present exposed to the world and its deceitful ways. 1 had been talking with a friend of mine, a few days ago, who earnestly advised me to enter again into the married state, recommending you at the same time as a man of good sense and steady habits, (virtues very rare to be found n men at this period ) I have been very tiuch taken up with the discourse, and cannot refrain from thinking of it since; so, in or der to ease my mind, 1 thought I’d send you. a few lines, inviting you to come and see me, where you will be politely received by youi obliging humble servant SUSAN SONESOME. To Mr. J. Love.
TUI AMEnlCAX POLITE LETTER WHITEn. 19 I ETTER XVI. . The Wtacwcr a ,lnswt . Madam— I heartily accept your invitation, and will go to see you next week, as I am very happy to be introduced to a woman whom I esteem, and, indeed, I wanted only an invitation, as I am naturally of a shy, backward disposition: moreover, since I lost my partner, 1 cannot find any pleasure in any thing-—but all our fghs and tears will avail nothing, when once parted, for ever, from our dear partners; so, 1 am fully determined to drop my wailings fm the future, and accept of your invitation wishing' at the same time, that if it is God’s will that we should be joined together in the holy bands of matrimony, that we may live happier than since the deceise of our partners, and console yourself on die happy prospect of being joined to a mai of my disposition, as you can very seldom f.nd a man equal to your humble servant, JAMES WORTHY. P. S. Write, c t receipt o 'this letter. I
30 THE AMERICAN FOLIfF. LETTER tVRlTElU LETTER XVII. <8 Letter from a Young Lad;/ tiher Sweethe.v\ tn Baltimore. St. Mam% July 28, 1828. Dear James— t seems to me as if every minute was an hour, since the time you have gone to Balti more, i hope that these few lines I send you may find you in good health as I am at present. I am fully persuadeil of your true attachment to me, and hope that the time wiL come when the sacred ties of marriage wiL bind us together for ever. I have very sin gular dreams concerning you. but console myself with the thoughts of your safe return. 1 pay no attention to dreams, as I know they ought not to be accredited, but merely mentioned my dreaming of you because it flowed from a heart that is entirely yours. 1 know your sincere attachment to me during these five years, and have reason enough to believe of your pure intention. Write an answer to this letter, and let me know when y ou intend setting sad for home, as also what luck you had, and I remain with impatience for your quick. return, and believe me my deal- J vues,
THE AMF.H1CAW PIUTTE J.ET1 EH WHITER 21 to be steadfast in my promise to you for ever Vour's affectionately, MARY COLM'ELL. LETTER XVIII. Tice Young Man's Answer. Baltimobe, July 30, 1828. Dear Maht— 1 received your letter of July 28, whicr Jives me great pleasure in hearing from you, *iy dear. 1 am in good health ami doing well, and hope to be able to set sail for home in about a week. I hope you’ll not be uneasy for my absence, as I intend as soon as 1 reach home, to join with you in the bands of mat- rimonv- I consider a marriage that has been Celebrated from a reciprocal love of the parties, the happiest marriage in the world; for what could we expect but contentions to arise from an unequal match, which we find tc be the case in different parts of the wor!d, especially in Europe, where the parents generally consult the fortune of the person more than the acquirements, whereas, if the latter is
22 THE AMERICAS POLITE LETTER WRITER. wanting, the former moulders unluckily away. . But in our country, we are blessed with the. i happiness of our parents leaving us to our I own free will in choosing for ourselves; I I hope you will see me in five or six days front । l tliis, as I am impatient to see you. Yours until death, JAMES BOSWELL, LETTER XIX. From a Young Gentleman to an Old Widows with a large estate. Dear Maham—’ I hope you’ll excuse me for writing to you, M I am not determined to intrude on you in the least, but owing to an acquaintance that f had with your husband, induces me to take part with you in the sorrowful situation which liis death lias left you in. As I am fully persuaded that you were a loving wife to him, and cannot but feel interested in his aflaim, and hope that you’ll consider me as yo.ir friend and well wisher, the same as if your . dear husband was alive, and as there is no returning again from the grave, you may as weV
THE AMERICAN POLITE LETTER WRITER. 23 banish all sorrow fi ;m your mind, as we know that all our sighs and tears are of no avail. I have been dreaming of you these few nights past, and it seems to me as if he said to me, go and get married to my dear-------- , as you know how my affairs are to be settled, a:'4 may you both live long and happy. I remain yuurs, &c. LETTER XX. Th* Widov^t Andeer Sru— I received your letter dated the-----■, and I ‘am much obliged to you for the interest you seem to take in my concerns, as aLo for your acquaintance and friendship hereto- fore shewed towards my husband when alive, jilt I would wish to be excused from your solicitations, as the husband that I lately buried was so dear to me, that since his death every Sung seems to me to be nothing but grief and anguish. 1 am determined to live single ths rest of my days, as I think that the more soli* tudo 1 am in, tiie better I cun call to remem*
24 THE AMERICAN POLITE LETTER WRITER. brance my dear deceased husband. At the same time, you may visit my house the same as when my.husband was alive, but you need never ex p< ct any nearer friendship from me, as my intention is never to marry again, therefore you need not dream about me any more, as it may be nothing but the fancy of the mind that caused your dreams. 1 remain with respect, your friend, JANE FORTUNATE. LETTER XXL From a Young Lady to a Beautiful Youn^ Man with a great fortune, with whom sh, it in love. Sir— Perhaps you will think it strange to receive letter from a person so far below you in wealth as I am, hut when you reflect on the cause that induces me to write, you may'not Save an unfavourable opinion concerning me. fortune has not lavished her smiles on me, hope Heaven has, and although I am no' rich, still ( have the same spirit as if I possess- cd all the treasures of the east. 1 can boast
THE AMERICAN POU PE LETTER WRITER. 25 of being of genteel parents that uphold a decent character, and who gave me a reasona- ole education, and I trust have shewed me the path of virtue, and all other necessary acquirements so indispensable to our sex, and [ would wish you to understa d that it is not your wealth which induces me 3 write to you; no, it is unfortunately a love, perhaps now too deeply rooted in my heart to be soon eradicated It is the beholding of your comely person that caused this love for you. 1 conclude this letter by wishing you all kinds d happiness. Yours affectionately, SARAH FORMAN LETTER XXII. Tie Young Gentleman's Jbwr. Dear Sarah— I received your letter dated October 3d anil I am very happv to find that you think so much of me, and have such a kind opinion of me. I cannot but esteem the young woman who writes to me in such a modest unafi fecting style as you are pleased to do, and in
26 THE AMERICAS POLITE LETTER WHITER. praising a person who considers himself undeserving; but when praise comes from such a pure heart as yours is, I cannot but congratulate myself on your affectionate letter to me, and as for riches, they are only transitory at best and fleet away like the mist of Heaven. It is surely a blessing to be possessed of wealth, provided we make good use of it, and the little that 1 have, I hope to put it to a good use. I esteem your virtue and education more than riches itself, and am fully convinced of your sincerity towards me, which I shall be glad of your acquaintance, and more glad to know that you have such a favourable Opinion of me. 1 conclude by wishing a more atimate acquaintance, and remain Your humble servant, RICHARD RICH. LETTER XXIIL Erom a Young Man to a Young Lady, accusing her of inconstancy. Miss Eliza— It is a surprising thing to me, bow you could koep company with----------- , after ao
THE AMEUTCAS POLITE LETTER WRITER. 27 many' protestations of your respect towards me, and the reciprocal friendship on my side. However, I cannot hardly wonder at any thing in this wicked world, where there are so many false friendships and inconstant lovers, who very often for a trifling consideration forsake them who ought to be near and dear to them; for instance, if a young man is possessed of a large fortune, whether'his person or acquirements recommends him or not, it matters but little, so as he is possessed of riches. However, in my eyes it is quite different: foi inasmuch as we are all born equal, so ought we bv onr behaviour command the respect of fliers, and not as is often the case by amass- ag perhaps ill gotten wealth, as is too often practised now a days, and my dear Eliza, I Kould wish you to weigh well these consid erations, before yon abandon a person who you know values your love and esteem more than earthlv treasures, wishing you at the same time, health and a long life. I subscribe myself yours truly, JAMES YOUNG.
Ti THK AMERICAN POLITE LETTER WRITER, LETTER XXIV. The Young Lady's Answer. Baltimore, July 28, 1828. Sin— Your accusation against me, in respect to keeping company with --------, is altogether Unfounded, as 1 do not make a practice of keeping company with a person with whom I have not the slightest acquaintance. I am glad to see that you are so uneasy concerning ,iie, as it is the greatest sign of your love anq esteem; and believe me, that 1 value your cha' acter and parentage more than I would Jhe person you mention, were he possessed of the riches of Peru. Indeed, it never was my notion to consider a man better by being rich, as I would rather have a husband that £ could like, were he not possessed of one dollar, sooner than a rich man that I could not like, as I consider the peace of the mind better than riches or honours—so, consider srch reports as fictions for the future, as I entertain for you the highest considerations of respect, and believe me to be constant until death. ELIZA CONS TANT.
THE ISKBICHX POLITE LETTER WHITER. 29 LETTER XXV. from a. Young Lady to a Rich Young Gent^ man. 1 Sir— Your receiving a letter from one like me* who, perhaps, is altogether a stranger to you, mav, no doubt, surprise you; but when you will reflect what a deep impression it made ir mj' mind by seeing you at----- , altogether unknown to you, you will pardon me for say* ing that I thought you were one of the hand- ■ somest young meh I ever saw, and 1 need f aot say how the thoughts of you runs still in my mintl. 1 hope, as soon as this reaches < vou, that you will send me an answer, and let me know how you arc, as also, how you may | receive this letter; however, if you should not think proper to write an answer to this, I hope i vou will not make my sentiments known to any other person, as my intention in writing I is urged by the purest motives. Wishingyou f health and happiness, and long life, & remain your well wisher.
30 THE AMERICAS i'OtlTE LETTEU WHITES. LETTER XXVI. From a Young Gentleman to a Rich Young Lady. Miss— It is with the greatest esteem for your personal qualifications, and comely face, that I venture to intrude a few moments on your patience, and when 1 tell you that it was not until a few days ago, when I saw you at--------, that you entirely captivated me; relying now on vour amiable disposition, and modest re spect towards me on former occasions, al though undeserving in the least of your re spect or friendship, I hope that by my unde viating principles of rectitude, and sound knowledge, to be able to deserve your favour, as there is nothing can give me more pleasure than to know that you think favourably of me. In the mean time, wishing you health and long life, and all that this world can bestqw, believe me to be, sincerely, your most obedient and humble servant,
THE AMEHICAX Fotin. SETTEE WRITEIl. 31 LET TER XXVII. From a ■ Young Lady to a Beautiful Young Gentleman. Sib— Pabbox my boldness for presuming1 to intrude on your time or business in writing to you this letter, as I am fully persuaded that x ou are busy in worldly affairs; but in writing to von, 1 do not write as a suppliant, but as young lady who entertains the highest esteem for your person and qualifications; it is these, Hid not an inordinate passion that induces me io write. I have frequently seen you, and cannot help admiring your comely person, to getherwith your admirable good cnaracter which any young lady cannot help falling in love with you, as unfortunately, 1 few 1 have already. It may be urged by you, that I am rather too forward in writing to a young man 1 am unacquainted with; but when you feel the same way as I do, then you may not think it amiss—at the same time, hoping this letter may find a favourable refeption, 1 remain with impatience for an answer which will console her who feels the most sincere affection, Ike. ELIKA GRAY.
32 fUt AMERICA* POLITE LETTER WRITE*. LETTER XXVIII. From a Middle-aged Man to a Rich Widow* Madam— 1 am a middle-aged man that is on the look out for a wife, and I think that you might answer my purpose veiy well. I am not in the habit of passing many compliments, as 1 ain naturally of a blunt kind of disposition; how- ever, I think that I would make a fist rate husband, provided I would be 1< ft to my own free will—but if inteiTupted in my business, could not say what the consequence migh* be. 1 wish to be plain with you, atid tel) you exactly mj disposition. 1 know 'hat you had an amiable husband, and cannot but express my esteem for you for your exemplary con duct to him during hfe, which 1 cannot doubt but that you’ll be in like manner to me, if it is my chance to be your next. 1 have no doubt but a person of your disposition might be most fitting to curb the passion of a man like me. who wants to rule, and not to be ruled. 1 re maui, respectfully, JAMES BLUNT.
THE AMERICAN POLITE LETTER- WHITEU. 33 LETTER XXIX. A Litter from a Hi ch young Gentleman to a handsome Girl with no fortune. Miss— It is the misfortune of the present times, tJr.it very few marrv for love, but considers wnetherthe p< rson is rich 01 not, before they make their addresses. However, 1 am none of these kind of people. I hate known you a long time, and entertain the highest opinion >f your modesty and discretion. 1 have am pie means I trust to support a wife and family, and always was of opinion that a companion for life, and as I think a loving one as you may be, is more to be valued than riches, which' soon vanishes away according to the vicissitudes of the times. 1 hope ton’ll send n e an answer to these few lines, anti let me k low whether you would accept of my friend- si ip, as it is no more than a pure intention 11 at excites me to write to you. At the same 1 i te, please to send me an answer, and let it ha favourable one, as I am very impatient t • hear from you. Yours respectfully.
34 THE IJItUlCU POLITE LETTEH WHITE*; LETTER XXX. The Young Man’s Letter to the Lady aftef getting her Father's consent for their marriage. Miss— It is now more than-- months since I had the pleasure of seeing you, wlrch makes me very uneasy concerning your welfare. I hope to be at your father’s house in about ----- weeks, and then to join in wedlock with you my love, as every minute seems to me an hour, until I’ll have the pleasure of having got your consent in marriage, and then, ansj lot till then, will I think myself happy. I remain yours truly, LETTER XXXI. The Lady's Answer. Sib— I hope that an acquaintance with you tnese -----months, is sufficient to know your disposition, which indeed I have no reason to think that you will ue otherwise than a lov-
THE AMERICAN POLITE LEITKR WRITER. 35 big and sensible husband. You had myfheart won already, and you will have my consent as soo.i as you return, hoping at the same time, that we may be always as loving through life, us we have been since our first acquaintance. I remain yours, &c. LETTER XXXII. From a Young Man to his Sweetheart, whom he did not see for a long time. Dear Isabella— 1 take this favourable opportunity of writing these few lines to you, hoping that you are in as good state of health as 1 am at present. Give my Vest respects to all inquiring friends. I presume that you think me very unkind for not writing before this time, but I had you at heart the same as if 1 was writing to you every day. 1 cannot bear to be long away from you my dear, as there is nothing can give me any pleasure when out of your company, therefore, content yourself, and hope to see me in a few----- , as it cannot be more pleasing to any person than to him who Las you so much at heart as I have, hoping
36 THE AMERICAN POLITE LETTER WHITER; at the same time to enjoy that happiness of being- joined in matrimony with my dear Isa- bella, which will ease my affectionate heart, and wishing-at the same time health and long life to her who is near aird dear to me. I subscribe myself with submission, Yours at heart, LETTER XXXIII. JI Letter from a Young Man to a Beautiful Young Lady, whose parents loould not consent to their courtship. Dear Anna Maria—■ ’Tis the nunfortune of the present day, that the virtue and accomplishments of young peo- ile are now a days scarcely to be found in one pei-son connected, but in you 1 find both. Your amiable disposition, together with your lovely face, cannot but cause every one who know you to love and esteem you, and to none are you half so dear as to me, as there is not a time I think of your lovely face and behold Jour lovely person, but I fall in love with you more and more. I hope to be able to get your parents’ consent to our marriage, as 1’11
IHE AMERICAN POLITE LETTER WRITER. 37 try every art to conciliate them to me, and in fact, I don't see the reason that they can lawfully refuse me into their family, as I always entertained, the warmest friendship and the highest esteem for all branches of your family. 1 hope before many months, to be able to come to more friendly terms, which 1 need not say will exalt the spirits of him who is affectionately yours, CHARLES FRANCIS. LETTER XXXIV. Ji Letter from a Son to his Parent'. Dear Parents It is witn gratitude and respect that I trans mit you these few lines, in hopes that yon both are in as good health as 1 am at present. Give my best respects to all the family, and let them know that 1 am well, and doing well. The climate here agrees with my health very well, and business of every kind seems brisk and lively. I have been very uneasy concerning my dear parents, for fear that any thing might happen them, as 1 think 1 never could enjoy any pleasure, were I to hear of any accident happening either of them. I wish
38 THE AMEnlCAH 1'0 ITE EBTTEIl WHITER. you would write immediately on receipt of this, and let me know how all of you arc, as also how all inquiring friends are. 1 am doing well here, and expect in a few -----to be able to improve and enrich myself, as I huve every opportunity to do so. I also keep good company, a duty I consider indispensable to my welfare, as very few can aspire to emolument without that observance, and in hopes that I may always deserve your love and protection as I hitherto have done, f remain v<.m faithful son. -&Q&- LETTER XXXV. From a Young Lady to u Hick Widower. Bin— The doleful news of vour wife’s death, caused deep sensations of grief in my mind, and whether fiom a deep s- nw of her many favours bestowed on me, or from an early attachment to you, J cannot say; but be that as it may, I refrained from shewing the least friendship to you whilst your wife was alive, ami never could I open my lips to you on such a subject, were you not deprived of your
THE AMERICAN POLITE LETTER WRITER. 39 dear helpmate. I know how rich you are, as also how respectable and honourable you are, and how low I feel in soliciting your hand, but this one thing encourages me to do it, and that is-the pure and warm attachment of the heart, which when once it prevails over young maidens, it never quits them until the object of their desires are accomplished; but mind, I do not mean any object that includes any tiling more than a pure and modest desire to be linked to him in marriage who is the object of these few lines. 1 conclude by wishing you a long life, &c. LETTER XXXVI. A Letter from a Wagoner to Ids Sweetheart. Baltimore, July 30th, 1828. Dear Sophia— I write you these few lines, hoping to find you in as good health as I am at present.— Give my best respects to all of your connections. I have been thinking of you at different times as I ride along the lonesome roul^ where I contemplated your beautiful face,
40 THE AMERICAN POLITE LETTER WRITER, and behold you as it were, in my presence. I cannot feel easy in my mind, until I have the pleasure of your company, as it seems to me to be lost when away from you. I hope that you have the same love for me as I feel for you, as nothing1 in the world gives me more pleasure tl.an to be in your company. I hope to be home in a few weeks, and expect to see rny dear Jewel, who, indeed, is more dear to me than life. Don't let any person see this letter besides yourself, as secrecy between lovers is absolutely necessary; not that I would be afraid of any person trying to injure my character with you, but for fear that there /night be some of your friends mocking you fer having a sweetheart, for perhaps they might say that you are too young, or something else, to hurt your feelings, but don’t mind what they might say in that respect, as you are sensible enough to put off such jekes with a smile, and consider that old Virgi as, or what we call old Maids, are, now a days easy to be found. So, I conjure you, by the ties of love wherewith I am bound to you, to remain steadfast in your good opinion of my pure intentions, as I entertain the highest regard for your modesty and good behaviour. 1 coidd say a great deal more in your praise, but you know my heart, and that will suffice.
THE AMERICAN POLITE AETTER WRITER. 41 I remain, dear Sophia, your loving sweetJOHN WAGONER. LETTER XXXVIL From a Young Girl to her Lover Sir— I transmit these few lines to you, hoping f o find you in good health, as I am at present. L.et me know how all inquiring friends are, Jso how--------- is in particular. You may Link me very' forward in writing this lettet o you, but I hope you cannot take it amiss, vlien you consider it to be the tenderest and ■nost affectionate feelings of love which indu- • es me to do it. I am oftentimes at a loss to ■mow how you could remain so long silent, as ou know how much I love you. However, * could at different times since I seen you last, ret acquainted with young men of greater wealth than what you are, but we are not to pok to wealth altogether,in choosing a partner pr life; on the other hand, we are to consult tie good disposition and piety of the person, more than any thing else—both of which, I ml you are possessed of, accomplishment*
42 ms America* rowrs LrFs.cn wnirzik. rarely to be found in young' men these times. I would say volumes in support of the present subject, but think it too prolix for the subject of this letter. Suffice to say, that this letter comes from one who esteems your person in the highest degree imaginable. I remain, Sir, your well wishef, JANE MILLER. LETTER XXXVIII. From a Young Man to a very Rich Lady. Miss— Pardon me for the boldness I make in writing this letter to you without your permission. But in the first place, if you only recollect where you have been walking a few days ago, in company with--------, and I happen' ed to see you, although altogether unperceived by you. At the first sight of you 1 have been transported with ecstacy of joy at beholding so lovely a face, which I fear the more 1 think of, the more my poor heart will be enthralled; as I fear that my station of life is not suited tot your high and opulent situation, the contrast which makes mo diffident in my address to
THE AMERICAN POUTt '.ArfTEU WRITES. 43 »ou. However, if I am not wealthy, I am descended from rich and honourable ancestors, that, together with my education and good character, ought at least to claim the respect of them .who are above me in respect to riches. And what is riches? It is only like the fleeting shadow, which often vanishes in an instant; and believe me, that so far from estimating you on account of your riches, I would respect you in the same way if you were not worth one dollar. I hope you will give me a favourable answer, as I remain with the great est affection, your humble servant. LETTER XXXIX. An Apprentice's Letter to his Parents. New York, June 24th, 1828. Dear Parents— I ta ke the liberty of transmitting you these few lines, hoping to find you in as good health as I am at present. Give my love to brothers and sisters, and all inquiring friends. 1 have made great progress in my trade since 1 have heard from you, and hope, in a short time, to acquire a thorough knowledge of my busi
44 THE AMERICAN POLITE LETTER WRITER. ness. I have had very good health ever since I left my dear parents, and have no reason to complain of my master’s conduct towards me, as I cannot with propriety do so; however, he sometimes hurries me a little beyond what I am able to perform, as masters usually do; and even then he seems to shew more lenity, than many others in his line of business. I keep respectable company, and even that but seldom, as I am naturally reserved and steady, neither given to drink, nor to any other vice that is peculiar to such a place as this city is. I will write another short letter, in a few months, and let you know how I get on—at the same time, wishing my dear parents health and prosperity in this life, and happiness is the next MOSES ROBINSON. LETTER XL. A Letter from an Apprentice to his Parents. Baltimore, October 1, 1827. Dear Parents— I have got the opportunity of writing these few lines to you, hoping that you are in as
TrtE AMERICAN I’OLITE LETTER WHITER. 45 good health as I am at present Give my love to all Inquiring friends—to--------. Please to send an answer to this as soon as possible, i and let me know how you are; aS also, how 1 all the family are, as I am impatient to hear ■ from all of you. I have one of the best mas- ■ ters in this place, and, indeed, have no cause t to complain of my mistress; they use me well, I and I sliew by my duty as an apprentice, that ■ they benefit by my services to them, as there ■are very few young men in my business, can z Ido as good work, or as much as I can. 1 ex- »pect to go to see all the family in a few weeks, find I need not say that it gives me grea plea- - frure to see my dear parents and relat.-ms, as J j hey are as dear to my heart, although now J Lt a distance, as if I lived amongst tin m. Wave nothing in particular to communicate at present, but remain your loving son, (JAMES DOKSEY. P. S. Send me an answer immediately.
46 THB AMERICA POLICE LETTER WRITER. LETTER XLL f rom a Brother to a Sister. Baltimore, July 21st, 1828. Dear Nancy— I rave got the opportunity of writing these few lines to you, hoping that you are in as good health as I am at present. Gire my love to all inquiring friends, and let them know that 1 am in good health and doing well,— thank God. I hope dear sister that you’ll ex- euse my delay in not writing sooner, as you Know that my affection for you as a brother nas by no means abated, although at a distance r"om each other. Remember me in particu Lar to-------- , and be pleased to send me an answer to these few lines as quick as possible, and let me know how all my friends are, as also how you are doing, and all the particulars of your business. I have no more to add, *«ut remain your loving brother, JAMES AMIABLE.
TRE AMERICAN POLITE LETTER WHITER. 47 . LETTER XLH. The. Sister’s Answer. Fweoericktown, July 30th, 1828. Dear Brother— I received your letter, dated July 21, which gives rrie great pleasure in hearing that you ire well, and doing well; but I am surprised that you did not write before this time, as I felt very uneasy concerning you as you know how I respect you, as a sister ought to re&pect an honest, decent, well-respected brother, as am told you are.—Indeed, I am transported with jay at hearing the good name that is giv- tn you from all persons who have the pleasure of your acquaintance—but 1 hope you’ll pardon my encomiums, as 1 cannot help expressing my sentiments as they flow from a pure heart. I live at present in----- street, and I am happy to inform you that I am in good health, as 1 hope these few lines will find you in like manner. Please remember me to all inquiring friends, especially to------. [ have nothing to communicate at present, but remain your loving sister, NANCY AMIABLE. P. S. Direct your letter to the care of Mr. lohn Long, No.------, Fredericktown.
48 TRB AMERICAN POLITE LETTER WHITER* LETTER XLIIL A Letter from a Young Milliner to her Parents, living at a distance. Baltimore, July 24th, 1828. Dear Parents— I have taken the liberty of writing these few lines to you, hoping that they may find you in good health, as I am at present,—thank God. Give my love to all inquiring friends, and in particular to--------. Please to write me an answer as quick as possible, and let tne know how all the family are; as also whether you ‘have had any sickness in yout neighbourhood. We have had a very healthy season in this place, and, indeed, every reason to hope a continuance. I make great progress in the millinery business, and were it not for fear of the crime of self-praise, I could tell a great deal concerning my ingenuity in that business. Suffice it to say, that very few know their business better in our line than I do, although some have been a great deal longer at the business than myself. I hope to be able to send you a specimen of my work in a few days—at the same time,' believe me my dear parents to be affectionately yours, ELIZABETH BRISCOE.
Till ANiniCAN VOtlTF. I.KTTKH wn>TEn. 49 LETTER XL1V. From a Young Man fo hit Sweetheart, Annapolis, Nov. 30, 18?8. Dean Rpsan— )’i.iiiiafii you may accuse me ofbemg dilatory about writing to you, but when I explain to vou the cause, I hope you will not take it ViriiMH. J have been lore for some time with out getting into business, which is the princi •a) i nunc of my silence. I have only a day •r two ago got employment, and indeed I think a very lucrative one, as I know by good economy I can save a handsome sum of money in a short time. The business I follow el present, is - ......., which agrees with mJ constitution uncommonly wcllj out it is time now to impure into the state of your health, tw also how your parents and brothers and sis- t< ri are, and all inquiring friends. I wish you to write on receipt of these few lines, amt let Im know how you lire, ns there is nothing i» this world gives me more pleasure than K hear of your welfare. I hope fo be able to go to ice you in a few weeks, as I am very um asy < «>m < ruing you. Believe me, my dear girl, to be alfecGonately yours, JOHN KKIHLR.
5*J TflX AMERICAN POLITE LETTER WRITER. LETTER XLV. From a Young Man to Ais Parents, asking their consent to his marriage.. Dear Parents— It is with the greatest pleasure I send you this letter acquainting' you of a friendship I have long formed with a young woman of the name of--------, daughter to-------- , and indeed 1 need not be sorry for getting acquainted with a young woman whose modesty and industrious habits could not but command Doth your approbations, were you acquainted W?h her as well as I am, and in hopes I shall meet your appreciation, I shall submit the following to your consideration. J? rne nrA place, she is a likely, healthy young girl, and 1 hope free from the many vices her sex are generally subject to, such as fondness of dress, company-keeping, &c. and secondly, she is fond of me even to excess, and nothing now remains but to have my dear parents give their consent to a union, which I trust will be pleasing to both parties, and cannot be more wished fee than by your dutiful son, P. S. Please to send an answer as soon aa sossibl*.
TRE AMERICAN POLITE LETTER WRITER. 51 LETTER XLYL From a Young Lady to her Parents, acquainting them of a courtship wit-k.^ Young Man. '• • t -■ ‘ Mr Dear Parents— As it is you that have fostered and raised me with God’s Help, and I hope in a pious, chaste manner, I have the pleasure of informing you both of my constant wish to comply wjth these holy maxims, which you first inculcated into my mind and heart, wishing that these few I nes may find you in good health, is I am at present. Permit me, my dear parents, .to inform you of an attachment I lately formed with a young man in our neighbour ' * hood. His name is--------, son of Mr.------ He seems to be a very prudent young man, and has every sign of being an affectionate husband. However, I cannot give him any countenance without first getting your con- ser.t, as 1 think it a duty incumbent on me to do so, ano after a dec examination into his character and parentage, 1 hope yon may have a favourable opinion of his person and manners, and until he may form an acquaintance with Sou, and get your consent for my being married to him, 1’11 keep at a regular distance
KI THE AMERICAN POLITE LETTER WRITER. from him, at the same time, wishing my dear parents many happy days, I remain your dutiful daughter, LETTER XLVIL From a Young Wagoner to his Sweetheart in the country. Mt Dear Eleanor— It is now a month since I had the pleasure of conversing with y ou, and since that time, J could not refrain from admiring your lovely features and amiable disposition. Indeed, it is no wonder that I should admire you, as 1 think, that every person who would know your amiable disposition would do the same. I am fully persuaded at the same time, that vou have the same love for me, as you cannot ji reason refuse love for love, especially when vou know me to be strictly decent, and always intend to be so. 1 would rather by a great ueai to have it in mv power to be speaking to you instead of sending nm .his letter, but the distance we are apart hinders us that pleasure. However 1'11 make all possible haste to get home, and then, and not till then,
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