Cedarville Magazine, Summer 2021

DR. ABNEY'S COUNSEL FOR PRACTICING COUNTER-CULTURAL KINDNESS Robert Putnam published a well-known book in 2000 titled, “Bowling Alone,” in which he claims that Americans are far less social than in years past. He offers some intriguing statistics to bolster his argument: club membership is down 40%; full-service restaurant patronage is down 25% while fast food dining is up 100%; and perhaps most troubling, personal engagement with neighbors and friends is down almost 50%. Therefore, Putnam concludes that Americans are “bowling alone.” Without question, our society is more individualistic than ever before, and the COVID-19 pandemic has exacerbated the problem. We have more challenges to social engagement today than at any other point in our nation’s history. But even with the obstacles in our culture, Christ-followers have tremendous opportunities to build meaningful relationships and establish Gospel on-ramps with our friends and neighbors. In fact , the decl ine of kindness and hospi tal i ty in our soc i ety present s an opportunity for Gospel neighboring to stand out all the more. We have incredible opportunities to invite others into our homes and our churches. We have the privilege of being counter-cultural with a hospitality and generosity that is Gospel- centered. Therefore, as Jesus illustrated in Luke 14, let’s go into the highways and the hedges to invite everyone we can! Our kindness and hospitality are needed now more than ever before, and, without question, God will use them to bring others into His Kingdom. Let’s gather with grateful and cheerful hearts, delighting in the God Who saved us and Who is worthy of our praise. devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers” (Acts 2:42). The early church began to meet together regularly, on the first day of the week, for worship, teaching, communion, prayer, and fellowship. People from various backgrounds, ethnicities, and social demographics assembled as one body to grow in their faith and encourage each other. The weekly gathering of such a diverse crowd for such a unified purpose was a beautiful reflection of the Gospel. These gatherings are described as something more than an event or activity; rather, they are characteristic of a body whose parts are working together to ensure greater health and viability. The Apostle Paul reminds us, “For just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of the body, though many, are one body, so it is with Christ. For in one Spirit we were all baptized into one body—Jews or Greeks, slaves or free—and all were made to drink of one Spirit” (1 Cor. 12:12–13). WE NEED EACH OTHER As members of Christ’s body, we are made to worship and fellowship with other members. One member cannot say of another, “I have no need of you,” because we need each other! Yes, we need each other. We need fellowship. We need corporate worship. We need to gather together with other members of the body of Christ. As the author of Hebrews encourages us, “Let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near” (Heb. 10:24–25). Therefore, as our country opens up, and it becomes safer to meet together, let’s gather with grateful and cheerful hearts, delighting in the God Who saved us and Who is worthy of our praise. When it comes to the privilege and blessing of collective worship, don’t settle for a picture or a video, because there’s nothing better than being there in person. Corey Abney ’98 is Lead Pastor at Bell Shoals Church in Tampa, Florida, and a member of the Cedarville University Board of Trustees. He earned his Ph.D. in preaching, Old Testament, and New Testament from The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary. Cedarville Magazine | 17